OAKS RETREATs

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Once a month, we open our campus so individuals, couples, friends, and groups can retreat under The Oaks. Whether you’re looking for rest, adventure, connection, fun, personal growth or a little bit of it all, an Oaks Retreat is where you will find it.

 

UPCOMING RETREATS

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Navigating Grief and Loss

January 30-Feb 1, 2026

A compassionate three-day retreat designed to help you navigate the complexities of loss by providing a safe, guided space to honor your story, explore the biology of grief, and develop personal ways to heal alongside a supportive community.

Couples Weekend

February 20-22, 2026

A revitalizing getaway for partners to step out of the daily noise and strengthen their foundation through guided workshops on communication and intimacy, balanced with plenty of space for play, rest, and rediscovering the joy of being together.

Men’s Weekend: Living an Incredible Life new!

March 6-8, 2026

A practical life planning retreat for men to move beyond the demands of a busy and productive schedule to find a more purposeful way of living. This weekend features a special session with Bob Goff to help you examine your trade offs and return home with a clear and sustainable plan for the next season.

Spring Life Planning Retreat*

March 20-22, 2026

A space to step away from the noise, gain clarity on your current season, and return home with a practical plan to live with more intention.

Women’s Equine Weekend

May 15-17, 2026

An immersive women’s retreat that combines personal growth and restorative rest with hands-on equine experiences to help you develop healthy boundaries and authentic leadership through the intuitive wisdom of horses.

Summer Life Planning Retreat*

June 12-14, 2026

A space to step away from the noise, gain clarity on your current season, and return home with a practical plan to live with more intention.

Family Weekend

July 17-19, 2026

An energetic family retreat that blends traditional childhood camp activities like relay races and campfires with intentional workshops and parent only sessions to help your entire family play, grow, and connect.

Wired: Discovering Your Unique Design

August 28-30, 2026

A deep dive into your personal history and personality using tools like your personal Timeline, the Enneagram and Working Genius to help you understand your unique design and return home with a clearer sense of how you best lead and love.

Fall Life Planning Retreat*

September 18-20, 2026

A space to step away from the noise, gain clarity on your current season, and return home with a practical plan to live with more intention.

Women’s Weekend

October 23-25, 2026

An intentional gathering for women to step back from daily demands and reconnect with their core strengths through workshops on vision, boundaries, and leadership in a restorative community setting.

Couples Weekend

November 6-8, 2026

A revitalizing getaway for partners to step out of the daily noise and strengthen their foundation through guided workshops on communication and intimacy, balanced with plenty of space for play, rest, and rediscovering the joy of being together.

A Year in Review

December 4-6, 2026

A reflective year end retreat to review your current season with curiosity, break free from stagnant patterns, and design an intentional plan for the coming year that prioritizes the relationships and work that truly bring you life.


* Formally named General Session. Same great retreat, just listed under a different name.

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BUILD YOUR RETREAT FROM THE FOLLOWING EXPERIENCES:

experiences & Amenities

Everything on retreat is optional and subject to change. This is just a sample of what we offer. Please review your specific retreat for a full list of workshops, classes, and enhanced experiences.

  • Our build-your-own-retreat model allows you to enjoy as much or as little structured time as you’d like. This flexible schedule allows you to enjoy plenty of free time, thoughtful conversation, rest and fun!

    *early check in Thursday available

    FRIDAY

    2:00-4:00 pm Standard Arrival/Check-In

    4:30-5:30 pm Welcome Session

    5:30-6:30 pm Dinner

    7:00-8:00 pm Evening Experience

    SATURDAY

    7:00-7:45 am Optional Fitness Class

    8:00–9:00 am Breakfast

    9:30–11:00 am Morning Experience

    12:00–1:00 pm Lunch

    1:00-4:00 pm Free Time (pool, hiking, courts, massage, trail ride, personal coaching, contrast therapy)

    4:00-5:30 pm Afternoon Experience

    5:30-6:30 pm Dinner

    7:00-8:00 pm Evening Experience

    SUNDAY

    7:00-7:45 am Optional Fitness Class

    8:00–9:00 am Breakfast

    9:30–10:30 am Closing Session

    11:00 am Departure

    Subject to change. Everything is optional. A full schedule of available experiences will be sent one week prior to retreat.

  • Settle in, slow down and double the relaxation with early check in Thursday. Guests can take advantage of our property amenities and surrounding areas.

    Take a day trip exploring the adorable town of Julian, hiking some of California’s best trails, and sipping wine from one of 40 local wineries.

    Or, stay close to campus for extra time at the pool or a pre-retreat workshop designed to maximize your growth.

    THURSDAY

    4:00-8:00 pm Early Check In

    7:00-8:00 pm Pre-Retreat Meet + Greet

    FRIDAY

    7:00-7:45 am Fitness Class

    8:00–9:00 am Continental Breakfast

    9:30–11:00 am Pre-Retreat Morning Experience

    11:00-4:00 pm Free Time (massage + coaching available + contrast therapy)

    4:30 pm Welcome Session/standard retreat begins

  • Workshops are 60-90 minutes, guided by an Oaks team member designed to help you meet you wherever you are and applies to every season you find yourself. Each session includes an experiential exercise, reflection, and group process.

    Our workshops are not full of answers, they are full of thoughtful questions, hands on experiences, and the answers you are looking for will rise from your time. Everything is optional so you can build your own retreat from our offerings!

    Please take a look at our full schedule of retreats for more information.

  • We offer a number of different classes (yoga, fitness, art) each weekend. Please check the schedule upon arrival for all the classes we offer on your retreat weekend.

    • 240 acre property in Southern California

    • a ton of nooks and crannies to connect, relax, and explore

    • breathtaking sunrises and sunsets

    • stunning view of the San Diego foothills

    • beautiful indoor and outdoor gathering spaces

    • delicious farm-to-table cuisine

    • coffee shop

    • complimentary snacks, tea, and treats

    • oversized rocking chairs and blankets

    • cozy fireplaces

    • personal growth workshops

    • creative art classes

    • fitness class

    • candlelight restorative yoga *

    • contrast therapy

    • 1:1 personalized coaching *

    • pickleball

    • sand volleyball

    • disk golf

    • basketball

    • swimming

    • water slide

    • high/low dive

    • free wi-fi

    • free parking (2 charging stations for electric cars)

    • massage*

    • local famous Julian Pie

    • labyrinth

    and more!

  • The menu is seasonal and we are unable to give you a specific menu for your retreat.

    Many dietary restrictions can be accommodated prior to arrival. Please indicate your restrictions as specifically as possible upon registration. We can’t guarantee accommodations that arise on retreat as we are located in the country. Please contact our registration team with any questions.

    We do not have refrigerators in rooms but do have a public refrigerator available. Please label anything you plan on bringing.

    SAMPLE MENU

    Breakfasts: Choose from a number of fresh, seasonal breakfast items.

    Breakfasts include a variety of options from eggs, fresh fruit, pastries, oatmeal, yogurt, granola, bacon, coffee, fresh juice and teas.

    Lunches: We offer a seasonal boxed lunch option to help you extend your free time.

    Dinners: From freshly sourced salmon to street tacos and enchiladas, we offer a number of different seasonal plated meals that delight.

    Snacks: Throughout the day, our fruit stand stays stocked with fresh fruit, granola bars, chips, pretzels, and beef jerky. Grab water, tea, and coffee throughout the day.

    Specialty Coffee: Served in the mornings for purchase. Pricing subject to change.

    Pie: We are lucky to source the original pie that made Julian pie famous, Mom’s! All the locals know Anita’s pies are the best and we bring them straight to you! GF options available.

    S’mores: What’s better than roasting s’mores? S’mores with peanut butter cups! Trust us. You’ll never go back.

  • Pricing includes use of our 240 acre property and amenities, beautiful lodging accommodations, a number of optional guided and unstructured experiences, delicious farm to table meals, and outstanding hospitality from the Oaks team.

    Pricing varies based on number of nights and lodging. Retreat a day longer with early arrival on Thursdays. Take advantage of all we have to offer by upgrading your experience with a coaching, specialty classes, or a relaxing massage.

    We are always adding experiences so you can build a rhythm of retreat for years to come. To learn more about particular offerings for your event, please click the link under your desired dates below.

  • We want you to get what you need while on retreat. That’s why we offer a few additional ways you can experience the weekend. You can try any of these for however long you want.

    TECHNOLOGY FREE RETREAT: This is the most popular option. Opt in and hand over your phone for a distraction free weekend and let us be your secretary.

    We encourage all participants to take 2 steps away from their phone while on retreat if they can’t get rid of it all together. You will not believe how amazing it is to be untethered to your devices for a weekend!

    SILENT RETREAT: Create an internal listening space as you retreat and spend the weekend in silence. You are still welcome to fully participate, to the degree that is comfortable. Take your meals solo or attend sessions but not share.

    If you spend a lot of time avoiding your own work, focusing on the needs of others, this may be a good option to try. Great for therapists, pastors, and caregivers.

    SPIRITUAL RETREAT: Use the time to deepen your spiritual practices. If faith is important to you, we want The Oaks to be a place you can connect and grow spiritually.

    All of these are optional. Try one out and see what you think. If you don’t like it, try something different, or nothing at all.

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